, has been there, done that, remarried, and lived to write a book about the tale.
She shared with some of her best advice when it comes to restarting in the dating world after divorce, and why having a "tribe" is not only important for surviving single parenting, but for surviving single parent 1.
Swap childcare with friends so you can have time for yourself or work late. Friends are also honest bogus detectors when it's time for a potential boyfriend to pass the test.
In my family, there’s an old saying that the teenagers will always come home safe and sound and on time from a date because they know daddy’s waiting on the front porch with a shotgun.
While meant as a joke, the story says something about parents’ age-old concerns for their teens when they begin to date.
The old worries about teen pregnancy, tarnished reputations and broken hearts still apply, but today there are new risks due to rising rates of dating violence and sexually-transmitted infections (STIs).
Talking about relationships once they reach school age is step two. ” Share your values, but be sure to ask your child what he thinks creates a healthy, loving relationship.Others may be uncomfortable even mentioning birth control and STIs, but they should give their child contact information of another trusted adult, doctor or clinic where they can get the protection they need.If parents want to reduce the likelihood that their teens are having sex, they should help arrange for them to stay busy with academics and after-school activities under adult supervision.Come up with a code that they can text or tell you over the phone anytime they’re out. I wonder if the talk about the condom happened behind the scenes.” When your teen is in a serious relationship, talk to both teens if possible, and make sure they realize the gravity of sexual intimacy, Brown says.A sign that they’re ready for intimacy may be that they can discuss the risks with each other, use long-term protection and go together to the clinic to get it.
“A more successful approach comes from mutually agreed-upon guidelines.” Discuss curfew, group and private dating, whether you want to meet their date first and how they’ll inform you of their welfare and whereabouts while they’re out.