Everybody has a different take on how soon you should start seeing someone after a divorce is finalize as there is no specific rule; even though there is nothing wrong to go out and date right away, but do give yourself enough time to know this man so that your heart is not broken twice within a short period of time.
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Did the marriage end because of your husbands alcoholic and abusive behavior, your own attitude or kinda both.
This is the time to be honest with yourself; nobody has to know what you truly think caused the divorce.
I finally accepted that it was best to just let go and move on and REALLY ended it.
I feel more at peace and unlike other post breakups in the past, I am not cursing love and all that mess lol.
After you do that then you decide what type of person you should be and what kind of person you want to be in relationship with. How many relationships have you been into and how many of them were serious and which one of them you thought would work out but it didn’t.