Well, at least I can take some comfort--not much--that I'm not the only one.
Waddlesworth seems to go for INTj girls, he's ENTp I think.
If you have a soft spot for them, what are the qualities you find endearing? I'm an INTJ and I'm easily attracted to INTJ women (I have known very few, and I'm not 100% sure that they were INTJ) since I greatly value their ability to have meaningful and interesting conversations; I always feel comfortable talking to them since I get concerned about being misunderstood.
You will have problems with those types too, even dual.
Are there any men out there who aren't completely turned off by the INTJ personality on us ladies, or who don't simply want to try (and fail) to use us for a fling?
I'm a decent looking chick and I NEVER get asked out.
I don't really consider myself to be very attractive, but yesterday a fireman said to me "Since when do they have supermodels on the first aid squad? Sometimes I get to the point where I want to ask every male person of my aquaintence: "What's wrong with me?
" I don't think it would do much good though, since there's no way I'm going to change myself to their conception of "normal" anyway.